Kevin of Wizbang points to a post by Cassy of Cassy Fiano who complains that men don't know how to kiss and she lists several osculatory annoyances.

The problem I have with the list, though, is that I'm horrified at the thought of someone reading it and then crossing all those techniques off their list for the rest of their lives, never to try them again because they're "bad".

Apparently Cassy thinks they're bad. And some of her friends agree. But I can guarantee you that there ARE other women out there who find excessive saliva and intrusive tongue action to be pleasureable.

Fact is, one person's "EWWW!" is another person's "OHHH!". There aren't any universals, just individual preferences, and making assumptions based on one woman's opinions just might wind up costing you.

My point is that if you're not sure how your partner likes to be kissed, just ask. If she's not comfortable talking about it, ask her to SHOW you how she likes to be kissed. You might be surprised to find her doing something from the "forbidden" list.

Or maybe not.

Just be aware that it's better to get advice on intimate topics from your partner than from some stranger on the internet.

Which, I suppose, would technically include THIS post, but I'm not a stranger, I'm a friend. Just trust me on this one. Try talking. Communication is sexy.

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